O mankind! Verily, there has come to you the Messenger (Muhammad SAW) with the truth from your Lord, so believe in him, it is better for you. But if you disbelieve, then certainly to Allâh belongs all that is in the heavens and the earth. And Allâh is Ever All Knowing, All Wise.
SometimesI feelcompletelyemptyinside my head.Ido not knowifit's because Iwalk aroundat homeall dayandarecompletelyunawareofwhat's happeningin the world.I havenotreada newspapersincemysonwas born(almost).Ido not knowhowitiswithyou, but I feel like the brainis emptiedofthoughtswhenIneverfillit withsomething.Ijustplayall daywithmysonandsometimesI geta chancetogooutand meetagirlfriendanddo some shopping,asyesterday, for example.YesIknow,Icanread a newspaperonthe internetbutIdo not know,I donot.Ionly readthe free paperavailableatbusandtrainonthe way to workandit's been a whilesinceIwasatwork.I feelsoincrediblyexcitedtobeworkingbutit will be a long timebefore Igetback to work.
Butactuallyit'sverynicetobehomeandbe a motheralso, it's justthatIdo not havetomeet othermomsandtalkto.AndthoseIhavemetappear to be mostinterestedtohearthemselvestalk, whichIthink is notparticularlystimulating. SohereI sitmostlyonmyownwithmyownemptyheadandmylittlecutieof a sonwhois soongoingtobeginto crawl, andwhen that happens I willprobably nevergetto havetime towriteonthis blog.Iwillbetoo busyrunning aftermyson.
I'm so happy!Ifoundsuch anicedresstoday!Actually, I mustsaythat I really lovefashion, whichisthis year.Iusuallyneverable tofindclothesthatIlikeinregularstoresbutthis year it'sfashionwithmaxidressesandmaxiskirts.And Ifounda reallynicemaxidresstodaywhen Iwasshopping witha friendof mine.Actually,Ican not affordit,it'sreallyhardnothavingmoney.Imaginewhata problemwhen youbecomeparentsandcan no longerbuywhattheywant.(haha)But sometimes you just have to give yourself something nice, don´t ya think??
This will be perfect to have like a long sleeved T-shirt underneath
Mylittlebabyis about tohave atooth!Itissocute,butsohardfornowhewhinesallthe time.I can not geta quietmomentrightnow.Mylittlesweetheartisneversatisfied.Moreover, he seemsto haveenteredaphasewhere hespitsoutall thefoodhe gets.Howincrediblyannoying.I'mgoing crazy.Previously, he atealwayswitha smile,helovesfood.Butnoweverything isagameforhimanditdrives mecrazy!Ihopeit getsbettersoonbecause Igetverytired withallhiswhining.
If you avoid the major sins which you are forbidden, We will remove from you your lesser sins and admit you to a noble entrance [into Paradise].And do not wish for that by which Allah has made some of you exceed others. For men is a share of what they have earned, and for women is a share of what they have earned. And ask Allah of his bounty. Indeed Allah is ever, of all things, Knowing. [Al Qur'an 4:31,32]
At first I thought "I don´t have anything I tresure" but then I came to realize that I do. My wedding ring. Becuase it represent our love in a way. I don´t have any pictures of it so this one have to do.
I want to trade places with my sister actually. I really do want to know how she thinks. cuz I really do not understand her. There is really a lot of things about her I don´t understand. I love her alot ofcourse but she drives me crazy at the same time.
This is my sister, and as usual only a part of her. She do not understand me and I really do not understand her. I guess weareatopposite endsofthe spectrum, in the way we think, views, how we dress. Well everything really.
So whatever thing you have been given - it is but [for] enjoyment of the worldly life. But what is with Allah is better and more lasting for those who have believed and upon their Lord rely (Al-Qur'an 42:36)
SometimesI come acrosspeoplewhosaythingstomethatIsimplycannotlet go.Icannotstopthinking aboutitandoftenI cannotsleepat nightbecausewhenI'm trying tofigure outhowIcangiveagood responseandsometimesI'mjust tooangryandliesand argue with the personinquestioninmyhead.Ialwayshavesomuchgoodthings tosaywhenI'm lyingthere in the darkness.
Ithashappenedtwo thingsrecently thatmademeirritatedandI am nowthinkingverymuch about.Oneofthesethingsisadiscussion Ihadwithmysistera monthago.YesIknowawhole month, I havegonearoundandbeenirritatedanda bitsadthatmysisterforthefirstrefused to listentomyarguments, andsecondshe seemsto think thatI amcompletelywithoutbraincells.OkI'mnoEinsteinbutI'mreallyabsolutelynotwithoutbraincellseither.Maybe Ishouldexplainwhathappened.
We lookedataperiodmovieandfor some reasonwe gotonthe followingdicussion:
Mysistersays:It'ssofunnythat people atthat timebelievedthat there wasahymen.
Isaid:Yes, butit doesactually.
Mysister:No,it's a myth
ThenI tried tothenexplainthe followingtoher:The hymen is a membrane that surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening. It forms part of the vulva, or external genitalia. (wikipedia) Well not exactly with these words but you get what I mean right?
But she just would not listen to reason. She did not listen period.
I know this is a weird topic perhaps to discuss but she have been saying this quite often latley and I just had to say something this time. And she just looked at me like there was something wrong with my brain or something.
Am I really that stupid? But would it not be something you had heard about before, I mean if it was really a myth??
Ido not even knowwhatto writetoday.Now thatI'mdoingmyphotochallenge,maybeIdo not have towriteevery day?
I'll tellyou a secret.
Ihavedoneseveraldaysatoncetobe surethat I don forget about it. Now,fiveposts isreadyandare waiting tobepublished.SinceIhavechildren, it isnotalwaysIhavetime to sitatthe computerandbecreativeand therefore it wouldbegoodfor me totake this opportunity towriteseveralpostswhenIhavetimeforit.Theyarenowscheduledandwill bepublishedwithout my having tolog ontomyblogif Idid nothave timefor some reason.smarthuh?
Anyway, haven´t done much today. But I have been outside in the lovley spring weather. What have you done today?
I've been thinkinga lotonchildren'ssleephabitslatley.Iwantthe bestformysonof courseandhasthought deeplyaboutwhat isbestforhim.Wewere atmyson's sheck up aswedoevery monthor so.The nursetalkedlast time wewerethereaboutsleephabits.Shesaidthatatabout 6 monthsit might beagoodideatoconsidernotbreast-feedhimduring thenight.Nowthe childdoes notneedthenutritionduring thenightanymore.
Shealso saidthat ifheis notalready doingso,it might begoodfor him tp sleepinhis ownbed.The reasonfor this isthatitiseasiesttoteachhimthesethingsnowat6 months.Becausewhenhegetseight months, he willenteraphase of dependent.Thismeansthathewill beverydependent onthemotherandshy withother people.Shesaidthatitis notgoodtochangerutinesduringthisperiodbecausethechildalreadyhasitreally hardduringthis period.
Mysonis alreadysleepinginhisown bed(forthemost part),and he hasdone so since hewas 2months,buthesleepsinourbedroom. Idecidedtotrynot tobreastfeedhimduring thenighthours.Itriedfor the firsttimelast night.Itwent very well.Hewasof coursesadbutI did not takehimout of bed, butIgave him thepacifierinsteadandpattedhimgentlyonthe head.Thenhe fell asleepright away!I'msogladitwentwell.Ihopeitgoesas well tonight.
All you mothers out there what have you done/are going to do with this sort of thing??